Friday, February 06, 2009

The Mom Song

I saw another version of this video sometime ago but I enjoyed this version a bit more. The lyrics are in the video so you won't miss a word, not that you could, she's a mom after all.

I think the strangest thing for me is that the older I get the more I morph into my mother. It amazes me how you just don't appreciate what mothers are saying until you are older. The light bulb went off for me when I was in my thirties. I mean I always loved my mother but I did not realize on a heart level what was really involved in raising four children in a less than functional situation. The heartache and joy of child rearing is intense in the best of circumstances, but she did it, and I must say, looking at my siblings and I, she did a hell of a job. None of us are perfect, but we are loving human beings, we love our kids, we work and we try to contribute to society.

I remember one time sitting at the top of the stairs at her house, maybe it was 5 of so years ago and after a few beers, she said to me she felt like she failed as a mother. I told her she was the absolute best mother ever, and I meant it from the bottom of my heart. I have always said that...she was strong, she tried so hard, and could admit when she was wrong. She loved her kids and although she was no Donna Reed, she was perfect for us kids, G-d knows she needed lots of stamina with me.

So anyway, here is to all mothers, daughters and even sons out there!

And remember, dear children, you WILL appreciate my counsel someday, especially when you do have kinderlach of your own (you KNOW what they say about karma...) Yep, then you will realize I am usually's a mom power we have...


BJ said...

Excellent post... but one little nitpick....

Your mother was wonderful....but she can't be any more than tied for absolute best mother ever..... 'cuz mine was ;-)

Luv ya.... and I have a bag of yarn for you from my comment contest the next time you manage to have a few minutes for me ;-)

NotQuiteJuneCleaver said...

Great post...great video!

Deanna said...

Dear One,
I LOVE this mom song!
It jogs my memory and I could so identify.
Saw you on Anna's site.
Would you please tell me what your stamp says...I don't read Hebrew. Thank you.
Blessings to you,
Deanna from the Kansas Flinthills

Philly Farmgirl said...

Hi Deanna, thanks so much for your comment! I am not sure which stamp are you talking about?

Deanna said...

Hi there.

Yes, in your profile section "About Me" question:
Your hand has been replaced by a rubber stamp. What does it say?
Hashem li v'lo irah

Hope to hear from you.
Blessings to you,
Deanna from the Kansas Flinthills

Philly Farmgirl said...

Ohhhhh, that stamp! LOL! I was trying to figure out if I posted a picture of something I forgot about.

Hashem li v'lo irah means: Hashem (G-d) is with me I am/will not (be) afraid.

Deanna said...

Philly Farmgirl,
Thank you!
What a great thing to say for a stamp.
So many times I need to remember this and say it out loud.
Blessings to you.
Deanna from the Kansas Flinthills